tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6233953792386366405.post5305595565318953586..comments2023-04-24T10:44:23.117-05:00Comments on Your Child's Mother: What would you do?KMNhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17716893551304107761noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6233953792386366405.post-32743774239645501102011-02-10T20:19:16.954-06:002011-02-10T20:19:16.954-06:00SSB...And I don't want MIB to have to choose s...SSB...And I don't want MIB to have to choose sides because she shouldn't have to. All I've ever wanted was for SD to be a permanent fixture in her life and now that he's finally doing it (and it is the same thing that my mom wanted of him) she wants to basically be nasty about it instead of supporting this next phase in her life. I just don't get it...and it's beginning to piss me off in.real.life. LOL. And all I want from him and my mom is cordialness (is that a word?lol) <br />We are going over to his house this weekend just so I can keep her mouth out of what's going on with me him and MIB. Hopefully I won't hear any mess when we get back...<br /><br />KMNKMNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17716893551304107761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6233953792386366405.post-72954622683215230332011-02-10T16:34:55.943-06:002011-02-10T16:34:55.943-06:00Sounds like something my mother would do. She woul...Sounds like something my mother would do. She would always keep grudges for me long after i'd forgiven the person. But she died before I had my son or falling out with his father so who knows. Anyway I would talk to her about it. I agree somethings should not be said to or around children especially about their "daddies".<br /><br />Having grown up a child of divorced parents, I (and I think I can speak for my bros) always felt like we had to choose sides because of the obvious dislike my mother harboured for my dad. Eventually I had to accept that I had no right to side with her and dislike my dad because she did, he was a horrible husband but he was my dad and did a good job at it too. So once I had my son and his father and I separated I vowed that I would never put him in the situation where he would feel uneasy or tension between us. So we've been pretty cordial.SunSoakerBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07881301524727103356noreply@blogger.com